Psychological Difference NOT Disability

When we talk about psychological disabilities I have a problem with that terminology. I like to refer to it as a psychological difference rather then a disability. The term disability implies that the person has a dysfunction or limitation in functioning. Whether you agree or not I think some of the greatest minds in history would’ve been labeled as having a psychological disability simply because their minds function differently than the majority. When someone says that I am crazy or my thoughts are not normal, I think that is a complement. This is because I have come to realize that the norm of thought is not a active process it all. The majority of people that is considered normal are semi-conscious simple-minded individuals that have little if any original thought processes. They usually function on preprogrammed subconscious behavior patterns and suffer from cognitive dissonance.

Regardless if the person who has a psychological difference may have a disability, that it is fair say that a normal person has a lack of ability.

 

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THE HORRORS BEFORE MAKING CERTAIN CALLS

I am pretty sure that everybody can relate to this. Those phone calls, or discussions we really do not want to have, but can no longer evade. A lot of anxiety starts to build up as you get closer and closer to the time you need to make that call. This anxiety can be built up that day, week or sometimes even months prior! Your mind just keeps racing around and around in circles wishing for someway to avoid it.  Once you get it over with, you are relieved, and at the same time you realize that the experience YOU had leading up to that moment was far worse than dealing with the actual situation.

COMMON SENSE AWARENESS

DO YOU KNOW WHAT COMMON SENSE IS? OR, MORE IMPORTANTLY WHAT IT IS NOT!

     Are you aware that common sense is not a valid reference or even a reliable source to support to itself? This will definitely be confusing and difficult to comprehend even if I was able to describe it well.

     Maybe it is a good thing that this described in a way without proper writing techniques….. Something like this is hard enough to understand to begin with, without me making it worse by trying to write properly.

     So I’m just gonna write it how I think it. Your common sense is only what you have commonly accepted to be accurate, and excepted as true in the past. In no way is that permanent, or expected to be a permanent. It is only temporary beliefs formed by past experiences that have supported it. When new information is presented that may challenge these “common sense” beliefs, they should always be considered as a possible replacement for the old common sense!

     FOR EXAMPLE- THIS WAS SOMETHING I HAVE JUST RECENTLY EXPERIENCED…….

          —-MY ENTIRE LIFE I WAS UNDER THE BELIEF THAT COAL COULD BE TURNED INTO A DIAMOND UNDER PRESSURE AND TIME ——- IT WAS COMMON SENSE TO ME THAT COAL COULD BE TRANSFORMED INTO A DIAMOND!!!!! THERE WERE JOKES REFERENCING THIS (STICK COAL UP HIS *** AND IT WILL TURN INTO A DIAMOND!)

     I’M PRETTY SURE THAT EVEN SUPERMAN HAD SOME CONTRIBUTION TO THIS “COAL INTO DIAMOND”

     WELL, MY COMMON SENSE THAT COAL CAN PRODUCE A DIAMOND HAS JUST RECENTLY BECAME AWARE TO ME AS 100% FALSE!!!! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR COAL TO PRODUCE A DIAMOND! EVER! —- WITHOUT GOING INTO MOLECULAR SCIENCE —- IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!!!!! 

SO- That is an example of my recently updated common sense!

     —–JUST

YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU?

“IF YOU EVER WONDER WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU? —– HOW ABOUT YOU JUST DECIDE FOR YOURSELF! LOL…  REMEMBER, IT IS YOU THAT DETERMINES HOW YOU THINK THEY ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU. WHY EVEN  CONCERN YOURSELF WITH HOW OTHERS ARE THINKING, WHEN YOU CAN CHOOSE HOW YOU ARE THOUGHT OF.”

STEPHEN JAMES

JUST SO WE ARE UNDERSTANDING (RANT)

RANDOM THOUGHT—

EVERYONE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT IS CONSIDERED TO BE UNDERSTANDABLE IS ONLY WHAT IS EXPECTED TO BE UNDERSTOOD. WHEN SOMETHING COMMONLY UNDERSTOOD IS NOT TO YOUR UNDERSTANDING, THAN IT IS TO BE MENTIONED AND NOTED THAT YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND. A COMMON UNDERSTANDING BY OTHERS DOES NOT ALLOW THEM TO ASSUME YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY UNDERSTAND.

IT IS VERY SIMPLY,.,.,HAHA

LET OTHERS KNOW WHEN YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY THOUGHT YOU UNDERSTOOD, THIS WAY THEY KNOW YOU DID NOT UNDERSTAND. USUALLY THIS WILL CAUSE THEM TO TRY AND MAKE UNDERSTAND. AS THEY ARE HELPING YOU UNDERSTAND, TRY AND UNDERSTAND THAT THEY ARE EXPLAINING IT AS BEST AS POSSIBLE TO BE UNDERSTOOD AND ENSURE YOU ARE IN UNDERSTANDING OF ONE ANOTHER…..

UNDERSTAND ?!?!?! HAHA

AS LONG AS EVERYONE IS OPEN TO UNDERSTANDING ONE ANOTHER, IT WOULD NOT BE UNDERSTANDABLE FOR ANYTHING TO GO WRONG!!!!!!

HAHA

ART OF DEFLECTION INTRODUCTION / INTENT

Hopefully, no one uses deflection as an extra tool to be placed in their extra large tool belt thats keeping up their life of lies and trying to never end up being “caught with their pants down” lol.

Deflection used properly is meant to protect others, not you!  If need be deflection can be used as psychological torment for people that deserve it, and yes some people deserve it as I’ll get into. Surely the type of person described above would be a good candidate.

  1. There is way too much info irrelevant that is better off not mentioned. Not that anything negative or wrongful applies to the current situation just irrelevant that the other person now considers relevant.
  2. We all know the saying “never ask something you wouldn’t want to answer yourself, or a question you don’t want to hear the answer to” But they can’t help themselves and ask ask ask…. Be responsible and do the decent thing by using deflection to save these poor souls from destroying themselves. lol
  3. Its like training a dog only a lot more time, effort, and attention is required. Our “advanced human brain” wasn’t engineered “user friendly”  . Eventually you get them to break the question addiction. (if this is really the type of person you want to be with) I’m not going to get into psychology explaining these “question” personality causes.
  4. The ultimate goal is to apply deflection proactively to prevent questions or subjects being brought up, because as you know if the question is being asked they already have their answer. ***

***Just want to point out that even if its proven without doubt the assumption, belief, accusation was completely wrong, you need to realize that in their mind and perception of reality it was real even though they consciously have been proven they were wrong. Once they entertained the possibility of whatever it was they played it out in their mind and created a temporary(not really) visualization thoughts, emotions, and so on of it. Even worse and more likely it has been on instant replay for who knows how long before they actually asked you. So its just not as simple of eliminating any doubts of their thought being wrong. The memory, well actually strongly implanted memory doesn’t just erase itself. Its a corrupt file that floats around in the background and trust me comes back out. That needs to be removed/corrected properly but thats another topic

Alright, how can you start applying deflection right away and who, why, how, and what about? Everybody, anybody can be practiced on in a non harmful way. Remember this is not just for you to deflect a question you don’t want to answer.. Its much bigger and applicable than you could imagine.

1) You have to start observing people and become aware of many things some like predictable behaviors, expected responses, triggers that initiate certain behaviors and thoughts, topics or statements that aggravate them, topics or subject that silence them, and passionate topics that are powerful enough detour the conversation route.

Im going to be honest by saying for a good majority of the population this is just outside their ability and capability of fully understanding and applying this. This has no reflection or relevance to intelligence on people that can not do this it is a skill or trait that even people that have it still won’t be able to without a lot  of training .

Once you see how consistent human behavior is and it’s functionality than you can start recognizing behavior patterns get to work…I find public places, strangers is a good place to start. An even better start would be store owners and employees in positions that a follow routine. Your goal is deflect them, derail or any thing to get them break the routine, focus, or even try and create a new focal. Have fun with it because once you see how easily guided people are than start observing the largest application of deflection. (Government—->Media—->Public) I have a very long rant on this and a lot more political that Ill post in that category soon.

lets give some examples

Police Speeding Stop: there are many quick outs actually easy and in no way disrespects the officer or cause anything negative just have to be willing to try and HAVE FUN!

First One I Ever tried and worked also had the trooper laughing.

-Soon as I knew I was getting pulled over I held my breath and anything to make my face flush and have observable symptoms. As the trooper was walking up to my car I kept up exerting and tensing up also making me rise up and down in my seat. As soon as he got to my window before he had a chance to start his routine questions expecting to hear the same bs reposes he gets from everyone else I keep the performance and in a tense, anxious, desperate voice before he says anything “Officer, I’m so sorry I know I was speeding and I’m embarrassed to ask but I’m not going to make it… I have to get to a bathroom asap or I’m honestly going to shit my pants…. Its so bad that I don’t care how embarrassing this is … any possible way you can follow me to the next exit and write me the ticket while I use the ugh gas station bathroom?  After a slight pause, he started laughing and apologized for laughing, I said “I’ll be laughing later at this as well, but I’m sure you have had this type of stomach screaming bathroom now where i almost didn’t even pull over knowing toilette salvation is right up there lol” couple more laughs from the trooper as he was telling me to just go and get there just don’t speed. He got a quick laugh for the day and I got out of a ticket. Fair trade off right?

-Now the deflection seems easy to spot, but trust me I’m willing to bet 99% would guess wrong more like 100% would. I didn’t even know or even thought about the art of deflection back than I was 18 and i would have guessed wrong with everyone else by saying my diarrhea emergency performance was the deflection away from the speeding offense. It wasn’t! The deflection wasn’t about what I said, I could have just as easily got them same result by countless less dramatic claims or statements .

-The deflection was in the timing, and structure that resulted in 1-throwing off his routine boring repetitive procedure in which they are almost definitely running on auto pilot. (ever notice how shut off they are when your pulled over and just want you license,insurance,registration, and ask how fast you were going in a mumbled voice, if you try talking or ask anything they don’t hear one word you say and usually mumble something in response than say k sit tight Ill be back. (with a ticket)

My energy and Jumping in before they started the auto pilot created a new situation in which forces him to think and act on the fly conscious. Once that was secured I unknowingly also controlled the the whole conversation from start to finishing with him being unaware also. Can you see reading it again I was actually telling him what to do “follow me to the next exit and write the ticket while I’m in the bathroom” and  also continuing to make statements structured in which he didn’t have programed responses to causing him to have to process, develop opinions/judgments/reaction on multiple quickly delivered information from me.  It caused brain system overload resulting in “just go” and accepted it easier because he got a laugh out of it.

More examples coming

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