“MY ADVICE TO PEOPLE SEEKING ADVICE, WOULD BE TO GET AS MUCH ADVICE AS POSSIBLE. AFTER YOU HAVE RECEIVED AS MUCH ADVICE AS POSSIBLE, THAN YOU CAN START PROCESSING IT ALL AND COME TO YOUR OWN CONCLUSION.”
I’M NOT ONE TO ARGUE LOL
AN ARGUMENT, BY DEFINITION, IS (AN EXCHANGE OF DIVERGING OR OPPOSITE VIEWS, TYPICALLY A HEATED OR ANGRY ONE)…….
MY QUESTION IS – WHY ARE OPPOSING IDEAS OR VIEWS USUALLY EXCHANGED WITH SUCH RESISTANCE AND DEFIANCE? RATHER THAN BEING WELCOME AND DESIRED?
I’VE SAID IT MANY TIMES, IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS……..BUT, AGAIN I’LL SAY –
OPPOSING THOUGHTS ARE MORE THAN WELCOME! THEY ARE ACTUALLY BEING ASKED FOR AND NEEDED!!!!!!!
EVEN THOSE ABLE TO THINK UNLIMITED THOUGHTS, ARE STILL LIMITED BY THIER THOUGHTS!!!!! THERE IS AN IMMEASURABLE VALUE TO THOUGHTS CONTRIBUTED BY OTHERS CAN NOT EVEN DESCRIBE IT —
“ANYONE WITH THOUGHTS CONSISTENT WITH GENERAL ACCEPTANCE, MIGHT WANT TO QUESTION THE ORIGINALITY, AND QUALITY OF THIER THOUGHTS”
THIS HAS TO BE SAID AGAIN! THIS BLOG IS A SAFE ZONE TO SPEAK FREE AND OPENLY!!!!
ONE OF MY MAIN GOALS FOR THIS BLOG WAS TO GET OTHERS SPEAKING OUT WHATS IN THIER MIND WITH NO RESTRAINTS! EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR OTHERS OPINION, THOUGHTS AND IDEAS.
LISTEN!!!!! You do what you need to do with handling anyone else!!!! But, I need to make it clear again that with me, you can just get to the point without using the socially accepted society side step!
As long as someone is direct and to the point with me, they will never be judged, ridiculed, or challenged on their opinions! Even if you have a direct opposition or aggravation with something specifically towards me— I would like to hear your concerns , and again will openly without offense listen to them and consider them.
They will all be greatly appreciated and met with a open minded acceptance, appreciation, and consideration. It makes no difference if I agree or disagree! The value is in what someone has truthfully offered, allowing me to take into consideration a new or different perspective. Plus, those who start speaking openly with this format will also benefit from finding a place to openly “vent” or discuss topics without the aggravated replies you might receive elsewhere.
” OPINIONS OF OPPOSITION ARE ESSENTIAL TO THE EVOLUTIONARY DEVELOPMENT OF THOUGHT. WITHOUT A CONSCIOUS DEBATE OF IDEAS, THERE WOULD BE A LIMITED INSPIRATION OF CREATIVITY.”
“It’s interesting that whenever a commonly accepted idea or belief is challenged by a question that requires a specific answer, it never receives one!”