Parking lot Phenomena – Have you ever

Have you ever?

-Have you ever been walking through a parking lot and stopped to use someones tinted windows as a mirror only to find out someone is sitting in there?

-Have you ever found yourself completely clueless of where you parked your car? Even worse is forgetting which level you parked on in a multi level garage.

-Have you ever found your car and your key isn’t working and you can’t get in?…… Only than realize its not your car !!!!


Asking to ask

Please do not ever approach me with “can I ask you a question?” !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You just did!!!!!!


Hopefully, no one uses deflection as an extra tool to be placed in their extra large tool belt thats keeping up their life of lies and trying to never end up being “caught with their pants down” lol.

Deflection used properly is meant to protect others, not you!  If need be deflection can be used as psychological torment for people that deserve it, and yes some people deserve it as I’ll get into. Surely the type of person described above would be a good candidate.

  1. There is way too much info irrelevant that is better off not mentioned. Not that anything negative or wrongful applies to the current situation just irrelevant that the other person now considers relevant.
  2. We all know the saying “never ask something you wouldn’t want to answer yourself, or a question you don’t want to hear the answer to” But they can’t help themselves and ask ask ask…. Be responsible and do the decent thing by using deflection to save these poor souls from destroying themselves. lol
  3. Its like training a dog only a lot more time, effort, and attention is required. Our “advanced human brain” wasn’t engineered “user friendly”  . Eventually you get them to break the question addiction. (if this is really the type of person you want to be with) I’m not going to get into psychology explaining these “question” personality causes.
  4. The ultimate goal is to apply deflection proactively to prevent questions or subjects being brought up, because as you know if the question is being asked they already have their answer. ***

***Just want to point out that even if its proven without doubt the assumption, belief, accusation was completely wrong, you need to realize that in their mind and perception of reality it was real even though they consciously have been proven they were wrong. Once they entertained the possibility of whatever it was they played it out in their mind and created a temporary(not really) visualization thoughts, emotions, and so on of it. Even worse and more likely it has been on instant replay for who knows how long before they actually asked you. So its just not as simple of eliminating any doubts of their thought being wrong. The memory, well actually strongly implanted memory doesn’t just erase itself. Its a corrupt file that floats around in the background and trust me comes back out. That needs to be removed/corrected properly but thats another topic

Alright, how can you start applying deflection right away and who, why, how, and what about? Everybody, anybody can be practiced on in a non harmful way. Remember this is not just for you to deflect a question you don’t want to answer.. Its much bigger and applicable than you could imagine.

1) You have to start observing people and become aware of many things some like predictable behaviors, expected responses, triggers that initiate certain behaviors and thoughts, topics or statements that aggravate them, topics or subject that silence them, and passionate topics that are powerful enough detour the conversation route.

Im going to be honest by saying for a good majority of the population this is just outside their ability and capability of fully understanding and applying this. This has no reflection or relevance to intelligence on people that can not do this it is a skill or trait that even people that have it still won’t be able to without a lot  of training .

Once you see how consistent human behavior is and it’s functionality than you can start recognizing behavior patterns get to work…I find public places, strangers is a good place to start. An even better start would be store owners and employees in positions that a follow routine. Your goal is deflect them, derail or any thing to get them break the routine, focus, or even try and create a new focal. Have fun with it because once you see how easily guided people are than start observing the largest application of deflection. (Government—->Media—->Public) I have a very long rant on this and a lot more political that Ill post in that category soon.

lets give some examples

Police Speeding Stop: there are many quick outs actually easy and in no way disrespects the officer or cause anything negative just have to be willing to try and HAVE FUN!

First One I Ever tried and worked also had the trooper laughing.

-Soon as I knew I was getting pulled over I held my breath and anything to make my face flush and have observable symptoms. As the trooper was walking up to my car I kept up exerting and tensing up also making me rise up and down in my seat. As soon as he got to my window before he had a chance to start his routine questions expecting to hear the same bs reposes he gets from everyone else I keep the performance and in a tense, anxious, desperate voice before he says anything “Officer, I’m so sorry I know I was speeding and I’m embarrassed to ask but I’m not going to make it… I have to get to a bathroom asap or I’m honestly going to shit my pants…. Its so bad that I don’t care how embarrassing this is … any possible way you can follow me to the next exit and write me the ticket while I use the ugh gas station bathroom?  After a slight pause, he started laughing and apologized for laughing, I said “I’ll be laughing later at this as well, but I’m sure you have had this type of stomach screaming bathroom now where i almost didn’t even pull over knowing toilette salvation is right up there lol” couple more laughs from the trooper as he was telling me to just go and get there just don’t speed. He got a quick laugh for the day and I got out of a ticket. Fair trade off right?

-Now the deflection seems easy to spot, but trust me I’m willing to bet 99% would guess wrong more like 100% would. I didn’t even know or even thought about the art of deflection back than I was 18 and i would have guessed wrong with everyone else by saying my diarrhea emergency performance was the deflection away from the speeding offense. It wasn’t! The deflection wasn’t about what I said, I could have just as easily got them same result by countless less dramatic claims or statements .

-The deflection was in the timing, and structure that resulted in 1-throwing off his routine boring repetitive procedure in which they are almost definitely running on auto pilot. (ever notice how shut off they are when your pulled over and just want you license,insurance,registration, and ask how fast you were going in a mumbled voice, if you try talking or ask anything they don’t hear one word you say and usually mumble something in response than say k sit tight Ill be back. (with a ticket)

My energy and Jumping in before they started the auto pilot created a new situation in which forces him to think and act on the fly conscious. Once that was secured I unknowingly also controlled the the whole conversation from start to finishing with him being unaware also. Can you see reading it again I was actually telling him what to do “follow me to the next exit and write the ticket while I’m in the bathroom” and  also continuing to make statements structured in which he didn’t have programed responses to causing him to have to process, develop opinions/judgments/reaction on multiple quickly delivered information from me.  It caused brain system overload resulting in “just go” and accepted it easier because he got a laugh out of it.

More examples coming

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Sayings After Accident/Injury/Medical

I’ll start this off with group of sayings that are usually combined anyway

Had to put these all together to hopefully bring some understanding of how comedic and theatrical yet tragic how people are. I’m implying that just because people say what I now call “snap phrases”, that they are not sincere. I feel its more a matter of a fail safe protocol in delicate situations to avoid saying the wrong thing.. Why is taboo to joke during sad or serious things???? I’m hoping to change that….. Not even half way through and I can’t help myself from making this an all out rant lol. So ill post it in both and Bold the sayings to easily id them in the post.

So these are expected to be heard in a hospital situation. Lets call them the conformity commandments for a tragedy

  • “Hoping for the best”
  • “How are they doing”
  • “How are you holding up”
  • “I’m here for you”
  • “Dr’s are doing everything they can”
  • “You have to stay positive”
  • “It’s in Gods hands”
  • “Gods plan”
  • “Hope and Pray
  • “I had a feeling”
  • “Someone was looking out for them”
  • “However it turns out, you’ll get through it”

Concerned friends and family call or visit and usually even without asking, someone says “We are hoping for the best”. Pre-programmed nonsense lol….. Of course they are hoping for the best!!! Shame on those who ask “How are they doing” This keeps the setting gloomy and dull where everyone is looking at the floor sniffling which contributes to the continuation of these sayings. At what point do you become more concerned on how you should feel and what to say? Besides, people are usually telling you to “Stay positive”…. So i say make a positive atmosphere by going off script saying something sarcastic like “I think I’m going to sit out on the hope thing with my bad luck I wouldn’t want to jinx all of you hoping for the best” Again, What harm are you doing by joking and lightening up the intensity????? NOTHING except not following whats expected from everyone who is going to judge you….ooooooo noooooo lol..

I judge them for being sad and conforming to the expected norm and say they are being selfish!!!!!! Thats right selfish!! You think the injured or ill person needs to add on to their plate the guilt of making all those people upset? They probably are thinking well I’m sorry that me being run over by a truck as caused so much emotional harm to you, after all I’m the one that just been crushed by 40 tons of steel lol Ahhhh no one ever thought of it that way….. If it was me fighting for my life in the hospital I definitely do not want all these sad emotional train reck people visiting me or hanging around after all I’m the sick one, how dare they take partial emotional ownership of my tragedy. A simple phone call would be good, I find no reason for people to hang around or visit if they are in that mind set. Well one thing you can use them for is to find out how your doing or look. They don’t even have to speak, you can tell by the look in their face as if you were looking in the mirror how bad you are… Than thank them and send them away. lol

Now at some point you likely hear someone ask “How are you holding up?“along with “I’m here for you” oh boy…. Is everyone else not yet seeing the pattern that the focus is more on the people rather than the sick/ill person lol Seems to be a lot of attention and concern on how everyone else is dealing with this. The one person that I would like to be concerned about the victim would be the Dr! But not to worry because you’ve at this point be old that “The Dr’s are doing everything they can” I find it alarming that they need to reassure us of this. Maybe they just want to prepared if things go wrong they can follow with “There was nothing else we could do” 

For people turning to faith need not worry because “Its in Gods hands” so all you can do is “Hope and pray”. I’m not going against religion I’m going to just try understand the system and maybe make it a little less complicated. So applying logic which actually religion has tried to avoid, lets look at this for a second. If its in Gods hands you are going to hope and pray. If you haven’t picked up on where I’m going with this yet its ok ill explain. Is it wrong to associate Hope with Pray? initially I thought hope meant more of wanting or wish, but I actually found the biblical definition of hope is expected certainty. I’m a little rusty on religion guidelines but I thought it was wrong to expect your prayers to be answered making it almost like a demand. Isn’t it that you expect your prayers to be heard leaving it “In Gods hands”? Than again, I always hear people saying “its part of Gods plan” or any number of variations that refer to this plan, Gods plan. Makes me wonder why bother asking for anything in your prayers since its already been planned? Do you expect him to change his plans every time someone needs something? Who are you to be interfering with Gods plan? lol Nothing wrong if you want to pray just the contents in your prayer. Just Be thankful, obedient, and accept the things that happen with your trust in his judgement. Kind of like our government lol

At least be happy that “Someone was looking out for them”. This is said if someone pulls through regardless of how injured they are… its because someone was looking out for them that they survived. Well, no I’m not happy if someone was looking out for them because they suck at their job. The might of saved the person but if they were looking out they should have stepped in sooner like maybe before the person stepped in front of traffic lol. That “someone” looking out should probably get a heads up from the person thats going around saying “I had a feeling” It would be nice if they got together and maybe prevented anything from happening in the first place. How could you go wrong when you have “Someone looking out for you” as well as someone with psychic abilities that tells everyone AFTER that they “Had a feeling”.

Here are the statements that were discussed and now I’m going to mix it up a bit

  • “Hoping for the best”
    “How are they doing”
    “How are you holding up”
    “I’m here for you”
    “Dr’s are doing everything they can”
    “You have to stay positive”
    “It’s in Gods hands”
    “Gods plan”
    “Hope and Pray
    “I had a feeling”
    “Someone was looking out for them”
    “However it turns out, you’ll get through it”

In case of tragedy instead of “Hoping for the best” you should hope “Dr’s are doing everything they can” so that you can “Stay positive”. When you pray make sure you don’t “Hope and pray” because when the life your praying for is “In gods hands” you wouldn’t want to offend him or question “Gods Plan”. Now you should recruit the concerned person asking you “how you are holding up” along with the volunteer that said they are “Here for you” to slap the person asking “How are they doing”, Fire the invisible person that “Was looking out for them” and interrogate the person that “Had a feeling” why they failed to speak up and unveil their psychic premonition. Somehow if you make it through all of that the final quote is logical that “However it turns out, you’ll get through it”……