Chime in !!!! No!!! I’ll explain (RANT)

I’m starting to understand why people do not speak much anymore. As I research into defining a lot of this goofy language its becoming very clear that we ought to consider a complete and total destruction of it and form a new one. All literary material and dictionaries should be burned and outlawed. lol

Here is one example:

When someone would like to chime in to your conversation. Usually they politely ask if the may chime in.

Just more proof that people have no idea what they are saying!! This is not a big deal to anyone else because they themselves don’t know what is being said to them.

I’ll admit that I never knew what “chime in” meant, but I also never would say that or anything else that I do not have a least a general understanding.

My way of saying this would be direct. If I was politely asking- It would be “I’m sorry to interrupt, do mind if I join in this conversation?”

If being rude – it would be “Sorry, I have to stop you right now and tell you ….”

get the point?  Well take a look and realize that “chime” is actually irritating and offensive by definition lol

So, I found a better alternative to “chime”.

TONE LOL

LOOK AT THE DEFINITIONS AND YOU DECIDE.

CHIME
verb
1 the bells began to chime: ring, peal, toll, sound; ding, dong, clang, boom, bong; literary knell.
2 the clock chimed eight o’clock: strike, sound.
noun
the chime of the bells: peal, pealing, ringing, carillon, toll, tolling; ding-dong, clanging, tintinnabulation; literary knell.
PHRASES
chime in “Yes, you do that,” Doreen chimed in: interject, interpose, interrupt, butt in, cut in, join in.

NOW DOESN’T THIS SOUND LIKE A BETTER ALTERNATIVE TO CHIME?  

TONE
noun
1 the tone of the tuba: timbre, sound, sound quality, voice, voice quality, color, tonality.
2 the somewhat impatient tone of his letter: mood, air, spirit, feel, sound, flavor, note, attitude, character, nature, manner, temper; tenor, vein, drift, gist.
3 a dial tone: note, signal, beep, bleep.
4 tones of burgundy and firebrick red: shade, color, hue, tint, tinge.
PHRASES
tone down the pastels in the upholstery will help to tone down the color scheme: soften, lighten, mute, subdue, mellow; moderate, modify, modulate, mitigate, temper, dampen.

I’M IN NEED OF A TECH TUTOR BADLY!

JUST WITH UNDERSTANDING BASIC FUNCTIONALITIES WITH

WORDPRESS

GOOGLE / GMAIL/ GOOGLE+ / YOUTUBE / PODCASTS

DO I HAVE ANY VOLUNTEERS

WANTED TO SHARE/REBLOG FROM Shush Don’t Talk…

Shush Don't Talk...

Mental Health has always been a bit hush hush – but I’m going to try and change that by speaking out.

It’s currently 4.24am on a Monday Morning and I’ve still not had any shut-eye. I’ve got to get up for work soon and to be honest, I’ve lost my motivation.

I find it extremely hard to talk about myself without putting on a facade, a happy face – my ‘yeah I’m totally coping act‘ but that’s what it is – an act. But, why do we do this? Why must we all pretend we’re fine when we’re not.

I think there’s a few reasons: 1. I think we don’t want to bother anyone else with our issues. 2. We have no idea what to say – I mean where the hell do you start? 3. Fear of being judged – it’s as if we think any Mental…

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FIVE PEOPLE THAT I WOULD HAVE IN THE CIRCLE

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Circle of Five.”

DOES IT HAVE TO BE THAT MANY? LOL JK

1- MUTUAL MINDED   – ONE PERSON IN THE GROUP THAT CAN RELATE TO MY THINKING, CONVERSATIONS, SITUATIONS ECT

2- GAL-PAL, A GIRL THAT I CAN CHILL WITH AND GET CLOSE TO WITHOUT DRAMA, INTENTIONS, OR EITHER OF US CHANCE FOR GOING TO MESS IT UP MORE THAN BEING FRIENDS. (I’M LUCKY TO HAVE THAT) MOST PEOPLE CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES AND RUIN IT LOL

3 & 4- THE MARRIED COUPLE — JUST BALANCES THINGS OUT.

5- TEAM PLAYER- THE ONE WHO IS INTO ALL THE EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITY I LIKE LOL SKIING FISHING BOATING WHATEVER EXTREME PERSONALITY

I THINK THAT’S A PRETTY GOOD BALANCE THE GROUP OF FIVE CIRCLE FIVE WAS MUCH EASIER THAN I THOUGHT. BUT MY ONLY QUESTION IS ACTUALLY ISN’T THE CIRLE SIX IF I INCLUDE MYSELF? I LIKE MY CIRCLE FIVE AND I AM NOT TAKING ANYBODY OFF SO IT WILL BE THE CIRCLE OF FIVE AND I’LL BE RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CIRCLE I CREATED

JUST HAD TO SAY THIS RIGHT NOW LOL

QUICK REPORT

     I just want to congratulate myself today setting a personal record of more initiated posts drafted and unfinished lol Maybe I need to walk away for a few and I can actually complete the unfinished posts when I come back. I’m having an overflow of post topics I want to write about causing me to start one and than start another without finishing any of them. lol

FINGERS CROSSED CONFUSION

CROSSING YOUR FINGERS 

     Some people cross their fingers for good luck, and also cross their fingers to negate a lie. This was something that naturally caught my attention!

     A superstitious gesture used to promote good luck, is also used to protect/defend statements and actions of deceit***

***A person can cross their fingers for “GOOD LUCK” or use it to protect them while telling a lie!!….

They believe that lying with their “fingers crossed” protects them from the responsibility or liability to that lie.

HOW CAN A GESTURE BE USED IN BOTH A POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE WAY BY THE SAME PERSON?

SAME PERSON IS WHAT MAKES IT PROBLEMATIC. It is easy understandable that gestures have different meaning through different cultures religions and whatever. But, for this superstitious gesture to have “selective” meaning used by the same person is very interesting lol

GET IT?????

IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING (REALLY?) RANT

SINCE IT NEVER DOES!

It is time that someone confront this very commonly used phrase. The phrase “it goes without saying” needs to be spoken about. Well, if it wasn’t for me this would continue on in lingual limbo. It is very common for someone to use the phrase “it goes without saying” and following it with an explanation or reason to justify why something that does not need to be said be spoken about. Listen! I’m trying my best to understand this language (my 1st), and write it properly. There is no need for these phrases to add to my confusion. If it “goes without saying” —— THAT SHOULD BE THE END OF THE STATEMENT, NO?!?!?!?

LET ME ADD TO THE LIST OF SAYINGS THAT ARE FRUSTRATING

  • YOU HAVE NO IDEA – 
  • YOU DIDN’T KNOW –
  • YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN –
  • WHAT DID YOU EXPECT –
  • YOU DIDN’T SEE THAT COMING –
  • IT SHOULD BE CLEAR BY NOW –
  • DO I REALLY NEED TO TELL YOU – 
  • YOU’RE NOT GOING TO WANT TO HEAR THIS – 
  • YOU CAN’T SAY I DIDN’T WARN YOU –
  • YOU DIDN’T WANT TO LISTEN –
  • I TRIED TO TELL YOU –  

I’LL START WITH THOSE!

LET ME PUT TOGETHER A LITTLE RANT ON THOSE SAYINGS- JUST FOR FUN!

 DO I REALLY NEED TO TELL YOU? —  I guess I better, so YOU CAN’T SAY I DIDN’T WARN YOU!

I wouldn’t want you to be in a position that YOU DIDN’T SEE THAT COMING

After I TRIED TO TELL YOU, I assumed it would be CLEAR BY NOW, maybe, YOU DIDN’T WANT TO LISTEN, OR ONLY HEARD WHAT YOU WANTED TO HEAR!

At first, I DIDN’T WANT TO BE THE ONE TO SAY, and even told you that you HAVE NO IDEA.

Knowing you WEREN’T GOING TO WANT TO HEAR THIS, I couldn’t leave this as something THAT GOES WITHOUT SAYING

I was not going to be responsible for an accusation later on saying YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD ME / WHY DIDN’T                YOU SAY SOMETHING

FOR CONSIDERATION-

IF YOU ASK – WHAT DID YOU EXPECT?, OR YOU DIDN’T SEE THAT COMING? YOU BETTER MAKE SURE YOU TOLD THEM WHAT THEY NEED TO KNOW. EVEN IF THEY DIDN’T WANT TO LISTEN TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY. OR, decided to HEAR WHAT THEY WANTED TO HEAR. At least now you can say these with conviction  —

YOU CAN’T SAY I DIDN’T WARN YOU

YOU DID’T WANT TO LISTEN

I TRIED TO TELL YOU

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Another Rant On Language

OH HERE WE GO

     Hopefully it is clear by now, my complete and absolute hatred of the language and words! This is not a result from being  uneducated(I think the colleges should reimburse us) but thats another topic!…..  Even my poor writing skills (openly admit and am aware of) can not be fully or mostly responsible for this…..

.HOW COULD ANYONE REALISTICALLY COMPREHEND THIS LANGUAGE? Is it only me and my limited literary skills that I find it completely ridiculous and aggravating that the meaning of words are (inconclusive) through definitions? Almost every word is defined by multiple words, each of the defining words have a somewhat different directional meaning themselves. It’s difficult enough for someone like me (with little or no writing skills) beyond psychology papers…. But, those were mostly constructed through precise and specific words created by the field of study and only need to use some “regular”  language  or words to connect/fill in. Also, we didn’t lose that many points at all for writing skills, grammar —– they only were interested in the content material and information.

You could almost say something like —— It is by the no way thank of thought to assume presumable no doubts  that prefrontal cortex function is directly involved in processing —  lol  YES MY UNDERLINE PORTION WAS MAYBE A LITTLE EXTREME OF EXAMPLE ( BUT AS LONG AS WHAT IS BOLD, AND THE ACTUAL INFORMATION IS OK, THAN SADLY THEY WOULDN’T CARE OR PENALIZE YOUR GRADE ENOUGH TO MAKE IT SEEM NECESSARY TO LEARN HOW TO WRITE PROPERLY)

Let me choose some words for example (not going to get into grammar , structure) Just a few words or statements

I’m going to try my best to “act naturally” (how can you be natural if your acting?)

Let me be clear that I’ll always try to provide “original copies” (copies- original? need i say more)

It is starting to get “pretty  ugly”

Simple——- is defined “understood, no difficulty” also defined as “abnormally low intelligence” So, something simple is understood without difficulty but, a simple mind might not be able to…..

Understood?  Just as long as you realize the definition of “understood” doesn’t mean “you get it” you may understand something, as long as you are aware that if you understand you don’t “know”—- because the definition of understanding something refers to you only perceiving — blah blah OK I’m done for now, before I get sick….. lol

Money Can’t Buy Happiness (Review)

THE WELL KNOW PHRASE “MONEY WON’T BUY YOU HAPPINESS”

I have a couple different views on this.

I will start in agreement, but its very important I make clear distinctions to this holding any truth.

1st- The is only a very few that I can think of that are justified saying money doesn’t by happiness. Even though they might be able to use the money to give them the best care possible, and a easier life without any financial stress, it won’t change their condition, experience, or situation. For them, they have a right (not a mandatory) reason to feel that way. *** (NOT GOING TO SPECIFY) “

2nd (most sickening) – The super wealthy but have a number of issues like drug addiction, depression, relationship issues, media harassment, public image concerns….legal issues… blah blah blah.. For these people it is true that money will not buy them happiness EVER!!!! Actually the only responsible and logical thing to do would be to take their money away from them- clearly they show that its causing them more harm than good. 

IF ANYONE OTHER THAN THE ABOVE SAYS THAT MONEY WON’T BUY HAPPINESS HAS NO UNDERSTANDING WHAT MONEY (CURRENCY) IS.***ALSO SHOULD NOT BE PERMITTED TO GET ANY!

MONEY IS NOT FOR EVERYONE AND ESPECIALLY THOSE THAT DON’T KNOW WHAT MONEY REALLY CAN PURCHASE AND BE USED FOR.

MONEY CAN ABSOLUTELY BUY YOU HAPPINESS. NOT DIRECTLY, OR IN THE WAY MOST PEOPLE THINK OF COURSE. —FIRST, YOU HAVE TO DISSOCIATE MONEY WITH PURCHASING, OR PAYING FOR ITEMS, DEBT, AND ALL THE FANCY CARS, HOUSES, BOATS, VACATIONS, WITH THE FINANCIAL FREEDOM TO LIVE LIFE IN EXCESS….THOSE ARE ALL JUST CONSUMER PRODUCTS..  A TRUE WEALTHY LIFE IS LIVING YOUR LIFE WITH THE FREEDOM, TO ENJOY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, WITHOUT HAVING TO DEAL WITH UNNECESSARY INCONVENIENCES, OR RESTRAINTS CAUSED BY FINANCIAL LIMITATIONS.

FOR EXAMPLE- THINK OF ANYTHING YOU DESPISE, OR REALLY DON’T LIKE DEALING WITH… LIKE GOING TO THE DMV—IF YOU COULD PAY SOMEONE TO GO- HOW VALUABLE IS THAT? 

THINK OF ALL OF THE THINGS YOU DEAL WITH IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU WOULD LOVE IF YOU COULD “PAY” FOR THEM TO BE HANDLED, INSTEAD OF YOU PERSONALLY HAVING TO DO THEM.

*****DO NOT GO CRAZY HERE WITH THINKING IM REFERRING TO”PAY YOUR PROBLEMS TO GO AWAY” 

ONLY TO PAY FOR THE ANNOYING AND INCONVENIENT ONES THAT DO NOT REQUIRE OUR PARTICIPATION

NOW UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE NOT BUYING HAPPINESS! YOU ARE INVESTING FINANCIAL POWER INTO SYSTEMS AND EMPLOYEES THAT CAN TAKE OVER ALL THE THINGS THAT CAUSED YOU STRESS, OR

FEEDBACK, COMMENTS, ??? WHOS GOING TO BE FIRST ???!!!

I’M LOOKING TO GET SOME FEEDBACK AND COMMENTS ON MY POSTS… DON’T BE SHY!!!!