LIVE GROUP CHAT COMING SOON!

     ALMOST GOT IT FIGURED OUT!

LIVE CHAT COMING SOON

     It’s about time I get this going I’ve been trying to since day one. For many different reasons but one of them specially is the confusion unfairness you give to yourself by writing something meaningful or have put time and effort into it being read and interpret by someone who doesn’t know you or your personality. This is very important for people me, and should be for everyone that is writing. Difference is I know how how terrible I am describing things by writing, I can easily explain speaking, with the added benefit of instant personal interaction and feedback no delay after confusion in the conversation lol. No auto correct miss behaving always correcting the spelling with some kind of unfavorable other that you send without proofreading lol

As soon as I figure it out I will definitely be posting any info about it.

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HEADING OUT TO SEA, OR, BACK IN (PICTURE REFERENCE)

THESE ARE PICTURES THAT I HAVE TAKEN, AND MIGHT OFFER A VISUAL EXPLANATION TO THINGS I HAVE WRITTEN!

WHEN I WRITE ABOUT THE FREEDOM, ESCAPE, OR BREAK FROM LIFE, THAT HEADING OUT ON THE OCEAN OFFERS ME. THIS IS A PICTURE REFERS TO THAT.  

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SOMETIMES I WRITE ABOUT RETURNING BACK TO LAND (REALITY) AND THE STORM AT HOME. IT WOULD LOOK LIKE THIS. 

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THIS IS JUST ONE REFERENCE OF MANY! I JUST THINK THESE PICTURES I TOOK EXPLAIN THOSE TWO EXAMPLES BETTER THAN WORDS COULD!

HERE IS ANOTHER ONE—- THIS ONE SHOWS WHAT IT’S LIKE WHEN HEADING OUT AND AWAY TAKING A PEEK BACK 

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COMMON SENSE AWARENESS

DO YOU KNOW WHAT COMMON SENSE IS? OR, MORE IMPORTANTLY WHAT IT IS NOT!

     Are you aware that common sense is not a valid reference or even a reliable source to support to itself? This will definitely be confusing and difficult to comprehend even if I was able to describe it well.

     Maybe it is a good thing that this described in a way without proper writing techniques….. Something like this is hard enough to understand to begin with, without me making it worse by trying to write properly.

     So I’m just gonna write it how I think it. Your common sense is only what you have commonly accepted to be accurate, and excepted as true in the past. In no way is that permanent, or expected to be a permanent. It is only temporary beliefs formed by past experiences that have supported it. When new information is presented that may challenge these “common sense” beliefs, they should always be considered as a possible replacement for the old common sense!

     FOR EXAMPLE- THIS WAS SOMETHING I HAVE JUST RECENTLY EXPERIENCED…….

          —-MY ENTIRE LIFE I WAS UNDER THE BELIEF THAT COAL COULD BE TURNED INTO A DIAMOND UNDER PRESSURE AND TIME ——- IT WAS COMMON SENSE TO ME THAT COAL COULD BE TRANSFORMED INTO A DIAMOND!!!!! THERE WERE JOKES REFERENCING THIS (STICK COAL UP HIS *** AND IT WILL TURN INTO A DIAMOND!)

     I’M PRETTY SURE THAT EVEN SUPERMAN HAD SOME CONTRIBUTION TO THIS “COAL INTO DIAMOND”

     WELL, MY COMMON SENSE THAT COAL CAN PRODUCE A DIAMOND HAS JUST RECENTLY BECAME AWARE TO ME AS 100% FALSE!!!! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR COAL TO PRODUCE A DIAMOND! EVER! —- WITHOUT GOING INTO MOLECULAR SCIENCE —- IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!!!!! 

SO- That is an example of my recently updated common sense!

     —–JUST

THIS IS THE OCEAN SPEAKING (POEM)

THIS IS THE OCEAN SPEAKING  

IT IS ME, THE OCEAN SPEAKING TO YOU

LISTEN CLEARLY TO THIS OFFERED VIEW

AS I SHOW MY EBB AND FLOW

I’LL PROVIDE YOU WITH EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW

IF YOU CAN LEARN TO MOVE IN SYNC WITH MY WAVES

THAN YOU CAN APPLY IT TO YOUR LIFE IN MANY WAYS

THERE WILL BE TIMES THAT I’M GOING TO BE ROUGH

THIS WILL PREPARE YOU FOR WHEN YOUR LIFE GETS TOUGH

DO NOT CHALLENGE ME WHEN I’M SHOWING AN OBVIOUS DANGER

SOMETHING LIFE MIGHT HIDE BEHIND A STRANGER

BOTH GOOD AND BAD WILL BE SHOWN ON THE SURFACE

OTHERWISE WHAT WOULD BE THE PURPOSE

ALL THESE THOUGHTS WEIGHING YOU DOWN

OUT HERE WOULD CAUSE YOU TO DROWN

WHEN THINGS IN LIFE SEEM UNCLEAR

COME TO ME FOR YOUR REFLECTION TO APPEAR

AS YOU LOOK AT THE REFLECTION I PROVIDE

DON’T FORGET BELOW THAT MANY OTHERS RESIDE

IT IS TIME FOR ME TO HEAD OUT

THIS SHOULD BE ENOUGH TO THINK ABOUT

THERE IS NO NEED FOR CONCERN

OF COURSE I AM GOING TO RETURN

REMEMBER I AM AT THE MERCY OF OTHER FORCES

I THINK ARE FAIR IN DISTRIBUTING MY RESOURCES

AS I TEMPORARILY RETREAT

DO NOT THINK THIS CONVERSATION IS COMPLETE

STEPHEN JAMES

SUPER STORM SANDY! CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S BEEN OVER 2 YEARS!

So many people were effected from Sandy, and sadly still are! As terrible and destructive as the storm was, It wasn’t the initial storm damage that caused the most devastation for those who were in her path. No one was expecting the tragedy and real devastation that was to follow many months and years after.

Many people (myself included) who lost their homes from this storm had begun coming to terms with their loss and displacement as the clouds cleared and tide receded. Expecting this was only going to be a difficult, but, temporary situation. Especially for anyone like myself, with a mandatory flood insurance policy to cover us in these unfortunate events. We all accepted that having a waterfront property comes with certain risks of flooding (and so does our mortgage companies) which is why we were required to purchase a separate flood insurance policy. I personally never had a problem with being required to pay extra insurance for having the luxury to live waterfront.

Now that it has been over two years since the storm, you would think that at the very least rebuilding would be underway, if not complete. It isn’t! The flood Insurance policies which was held by and paid to (FEMA) were not exactly “going to pay”. There isn’t any other way to say it, since they haven’t actually given a legitimate or direct reason why they didn’t have to cover this.

They did step in and offer some funds for rental and living costs while people were “temporarily” displaced, but that was some time ago and limited. So, as time went by, and more time went by, some of the people just gave up, walked away from their homes. Some people used their own money to rebuild (hoping, and expecting to be reimbursed in the future). Than there were others that if they had the time, began the never-ending process of paperwork and filling to receive the funds to rebuild what they were rightfully entitled to.

There was a fund/grant that eventually came through (for anyone able to wait this long). So, funds did come through to rebuild and cover you for what you were already insured for. Now, there was one other thing that seems to be an issue. It wouldn’t be right to assume that everyone who had lost their home in the storm (meaning it was completely gone/inhabitable) would stop paying their mortgage. Even though it makes sense to me that if your home no longer exists, than there should be no reason to pay the mortgage. Especially, if you consider the actuality of the bank holding the mortgage on the house is the owner (NO)? You would think they would be fighting to get insurance to rebuild or make “their property” in which they hold the note restored to regain the mortgager payments. Well, not only did they not fight for their property, they continued to demand payments, charge interest, and threaten foreclosure for non-payment. Forget morals, ethics, and what should be considered illegal collection practices. There should be some legislature or bill that restricts these banks from even asking for payments from victims of a storm that NO HOUSE exists! What is even more disconcerting is the banks charging interest, applying delinquent reports to credit agencies, and proceeding to foreclose on these people.

It’s alright that the banks were bailed out back in 2008-2009 from their real estate disaster. But, it is not ok for someone who was paying their mortgage on time for 5, 6, or 10+ years to get a “temporary” hold until their house was rebuilt!

HYPOTHETICALLY IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO !

IF EVERYONE WITH A MORTGAGE ACROSS THE ENTIRE COUNTRY COLLECTIVELY DECIDED TO STOP PAYING? I MEAN – EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!

WONDER WHAT WOULD HAPPEN ? HAHA

I KNOW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN……. THEY WOULD HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO MAKE A SOME KIND OF DEAL WITH US (THE MAJORITY) WITHOUT THE MAJORITY MAKING OUR PAYMENTS THE SYSTEM WOULD COLLAPSE IF THEY DIDNT WORK OUT A DEAL WITH US.

THEY MIGHT HAVE ALL THE WEALTH- BUT ONLY AS LONG AS THEY HAVE US PAYING AND WORKING FOR THEM >>>>>>> TOP 1% HAHA – THAT MEANS THEY ARE SEVERELY OUT NUMBERED ……..

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PEOPLE WHO SKATE AROUND, WALKING ON EGG SHELLS, STOP!!! HERE IS THE PLACE TO LET IT OUT!

         THIS HAS TO BE SAID AGAIN! THIS BLOG IS A SAFE ZONE TO SPEAK FREE AND OPENLY!!!! 

ONE OF MY MAIN GOALS FOR THIS BLOG WAS TO GET OTHERS SPEAKING OUT WHATS IN THIER MIND WITH NO RESTRAINTS! EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR OTHERS OPINION, THOUGHTS AND IDEAS.

LISTEN!!!!! You do what you need to do with handling anyone else!!!! But, I need to make it clear again that with me, you can just get to the point without using the socially accepted society side step!

As long as someone is direct and to the point with me, they will never be judged, ridiculed, or challenged on their opinions! Even if you have a direct opposition or aggravation with something specifically towards me— I would like to hear your concerns , and again will openly without offense listen to them and consider them.

They will all be greatly appreciated and met with a open minded acceptance, appreciation, and consideration. It makes no difference if I agree or disagree! The value is in what someone has truthfully offered, allowing me to take into consideration a new or different perspective. Plus, those who start speaking openly with this format will also benefit from finding a place to openly “vent” or discuss topics without the aggravated replies you might receive elsewhere.

WHEN BEING CALLED BY CREDITORS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE (INFO)

Most of people have eliminated house phones and rely on their cell phones as primary contact and form of communication. If you are ever contacted by a credit agency- debt collector, that is looking for —– and they just have the wrong # and it’s not you that they are trying to contact——HERE IS SOME INFO THAT I WANT TO GET OUT …. because I have been through the routine of explaining that “I’m not so-and-so…or even know so-and-so” yet they would keep calling……. WELL NOT ANY MORE!!!

YOU CAN LOOK INTO MORE DETAILED INFO ON THIS UNDER FDCPA AS WELL AS US CODE 15 U.S.C. S 1692C(A) SO, If you chose to dive into the land of legal lingo lunacy language than you have to hold yourself personally liable for doing so lol….

There is so much more to this, but I’ll start with one specific

IF THE COLLECTOR IS CALLING THE WRONG #

ONCE YOU INFORM THEM THAT THEY HAVE THE WRONG # AND IS CALLING YOUR # IN ERROR- IF THEY CALL AGAIN THAN THEY VIOLATE FDCPA, AND ALSO CAN BE CONSTRUED AS INTENT TO VIOLATE THE FDCPA.

ALSO LOOK INTO TCPA – CELL PHONE PROTECTION FROM SOLICITATION CALL, SMS TEXT, PRE-RECORDED VOICE MESSAGES-AUTODIALING —- YOUR CELL!!!!!!! OH BOY……. SO MUCH MORE I COULD GO ON AND ON …. BUT, SMALLL STEPS LOL 

—– I probably need to MENTION THAT I’M NOT AN ATTORNEY AND NOTHING I SUBMIT IS LEGAL ADVICE OR SUGGESTION , AND YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CONTACT A LICENSED ATTORNEY FOR ANY LEGAL ADVICE ——–LOL,

I’VE GOT MORE— PLENTY MORE !!!!! SO IF ANYONE WANTS INFO OR HAS INTEREST IN MORE PLEASE DON’T HESITATE TO ASK!

Start Reading “Terms & Conditions” !!!

I’m just as guilty as anyone else who has never read the “Terms” and “AGREEMENT” usually by scrolling down to the “OK/ACCEPT” click to get that pop up off and out of the way. START READING THE TERMS AND CONDITIONS! It is frightening what most of the things we are clicking “yes” to are not things we would consciously say yes to! I’ve just deactivated my account with a certain popular and widely used social media (haha) ……. for obvious reasons to me but more importantly the not so obvious “changes” to their “policy” that is for the “benefit of the users” and to “enhance you’re experience” lol …… oh boy….

Just, if anything, I want people to question why does it take so much to “explain” how simple they have made it to understand…..OH YEA…. THAT BLAH BLAH BLAH IS FOR “YOUR” BENEFIT, AND PRIVACY BY DOING —–   haha

Here is the email that was sent… I have xxxxxx out the id of who I’m referring to as well as xy yx to any other company.

We wanted to let you know we’re updating our terms and policies on January 1, 2015 and introducing Privacy Basics. You can check out the details below or on xxxxxx. Over the past year, we’ve introduced new features and controls to help you get more out of xxxxxx, and listened to people who have asked us to better explain how we get and use information. Now, with Privacy Basics, you’ll get tips and a how-to guide for taking charge of your experience on xxxxxx. We’re also updating our terms, data policy andcookies policy to reflect new features we’ve been working on and to make them easy to understand. And we’re continuing to improve ads based on the apps and sites you use off xxxxxx and expanding your control over the ads you see. We hope these updates improve your experience. Protecting people’s information and providing meaningful privacy controls are at the core of everything we do, and we believe today’s announcement is an important step. Updating Our Terms and Policies: Helping You Understand How xxxxxx Works and How to Control Your Information Privacy Basics Privacy Basics offers interactive guides to answer the most commonly asked questions about how you can control your information on xxxxxx. For example, you can learn about untagging, unfriending, blocking, and how to choose an audience for each of your posts. This information is available in 36 languages. Along with our privacy checkup, reminder for people posting publicly and simplifiedaudience selectors, Privacy Basics is the latest step we’ve taken to help you make sure you’re sharing with the people you want. Helping you get more out of xxxxxx Every day, people use our apps and services to connect with the people, places and things they care about. The updates to our policies reflect the new products we’ve been working on to improve your xxxxxx experience. They also explain how our services work in a way that’s easier to understand. Here are some highlights: Discover what’s going on around you: We’re updating our policies to explain how we get location information depending on the features you decide to use. Millions of people check into their favorite places and use optional features like Nearby Friends(currently only available in some regions). We’re working on ways to show you the most relevant information based on where you are and what your friends are up to. For example, in the future, if you decide to share where you are, you might see menus from restaurants nearby or updates from friends in the area. Make purchases more convenient: In some regions, we’re testing a Buy button that helps people discover and purchase products without leaving xxxxxx. We’re also working on new ways to make transactions even more convenient. Find information about privacy on xxxxxx at the moment you need it: To make them more accessible, we moved tips and suggestions to Privacy Basics. Our data policy is shorter and clearer, making it easier to read. Understand how we use the information we receive: For example, we use device information to optimize your mobile experience, like understanding battery and signal strength to help us make sure our apps work well for you. We ask for permission to use your phone’s location when we offer optional features like check-ins or adding your location to posts. Get to know how the family of xxxxxx companies and apps work together: Over the past few years, xxxxxx has grown and we want to make sure you know about our family of companies, apps and services. We use the information we collect to improve your experience. For example, if you’re locked out of your xyxy account, you can use your xxxxxx information to recover your password. Nothing in our updates changes the commitments that xyxyxy, xyxyxy and other companies have made to protect your information and your privacy. Your information and advertising: People sometimes ask how their information is shared with advertisers. Nothing is changing with these updates—we help advertisers reach people with relevant ads without telling them who you are. Learn more about adsand how you can control the ads you see. Giving you more control over ads We’ve heard from some of you that it can be difficult to control the types of ads you see if you use multiple devices and browsers. In the past, if you opted out of certain kinds of advertising on your laptop, that choice may not have been applied for ads on your phone. We know that many people use more than one phone, tablet or browser to access xxxxxx, so it should be easy for you to make a single choice that applies across all of your devices. That’s why xxxxxx respects the choices you make about the ads you see, across every device. You can opt out of seeing ads on xxxxxx based on the apps and sites you use through the Digital Advertising Alliance. You can also opt out using controls on xy or yx. When you tell us you don’t want to see these types of ads, your decision automatically applies to every device you use to access xxxxxx. Also, we’re now making ad preferences available in additional countries These updates take effect on January 1, 2015. As always, we welcome yourfeedback about our policies.

Understand why it’s hard to understand

I’ve decided that I should include some informative content without my attempted comedic alterations or disguise. This category will be for that purpose only.

The first thing I could think to talk about something relevant to understanding my blog.  So I’m going to briefly explain the psychology that makes it difficult to entertain or accept new ideas.

Don’t panic! I’m not going to make this complicated with scientific or medical research studies, or use medical speech like influence and function by the amygdalae medially within the temporal lobes primary role in the processing of memory, decision-making, and emotional reactions….. lol

Only reference I’ll make is this one
Leon Festinger (1957) proposed cognitive dissonance theory, which states that a powerful motive to maintain cognitive consistency can give rise to irrational and sometimes maladaptive behavior.

I’m just trying to show that there is more to the way we think than we are consciously aware of.